Tuesday, December 27, 2022

2022 donation list

started off strong this year with "friends," then abortion funds, then, as that issue faded from the news headlines, I shifted focus to other causes.

january - eddy
february - rachel's gofundme
march - national network of abortion funds
april - Women On Waves
may - Just the Pill
june - National Abortion Federation
july - Indigenous Women Rising
august - coworker's gofundme for her dog
september - algalita thru long beach gives
october - vox media
november - ywca south miami thru angel
december - Clean the World

2021 donation list

2020 donation list

i didn't do operation santa as i was hoping to this year, but j and i did donate about $50 worth of toys the 2nd annual holiday fiesta toy drive, which is pretty much the same thing.

priority orgs for next year (lol maybe, who am i kidding?) NPR, PBS, Vice, solarbuddy.org, RIP medical debt, Food Finders, Harvest Partners, Food Forward, Seed Savers, safe toddles, Anti Recidivism Coalition (i found out about them thru their ride home program).

Wednesday, December 21, 2022

december 2022 donation

for my last monthly donation of 2022, i donated to clean the world. i forget how i heard about them, but it must have been originally thru the soap donation program. 

"Clean the World was founded in 2009 to address global health issues by using discarded hygiene supplies from the hospitality industry. Aiming to reduce the number of hygiene-related deaths, it began recycling soap into new bars to distribute to communities in need.

"In 2015, Clean the World joined forces with the Global Soap Project, resulting in a consolidated nonprofit mission under the banner of Clean the World Foundation.  The consolidation allowed us to go beyond just hygiene to include programs addressing sustainable access to water, sanitation, and feminine hygiene as well"

AND apparently you can volunteer there! next time i can convince my friends to volunteer with me in vegas, i'm totally doing it!!

Sunday, December 11, 2022

toy drive!

j and i participated in the city's holiday fiesta toy drive this year. j normally does a toy drive and this was my first time. it was fun! we went to target, which was having a pretty great sale, actually, and got all this for only $50. i bought the ball, obviously. less plastic and more gender neutral. altho, honestly, i think toy companies are making a little more effort these days to market to less gender specific demographics. tell you who doesn't care about that tho: target. within the toy section there is a very sharp deliniation between girls toys and boy toys. tho, i guess, really, the toy manufacturers do that also? tho, notice the toy cars do not have a phot of boy on there. i got the ball in the sports section, lol. i wanted something that would get kids outside and exercising more. j picked things he would have wanted to get, lol. 

i definitely want to do this again next year :)

Tuesday, December 6, 2022

october 2022 donation


donated belatedly to vox media for october! they make pretty good videos on youtube. i tried donating to vice media also, but couldn't find a donation link. i mean, i get it, they're not a non-profit, but meh. sometimes you want to financially support things but you don't want physical stuff in return. 

Friday, November 18, 2022

november 2022 donation

this month i gave $50 to help buy a giftcard for thanksgiving dinner. A works for the ywca south maimi and her org is doing this great thing. plus, i'd missed her ask literally the day before to donate to her org thru give miami, oops!

Tuesday, September 20, 2022

september 2022 donation

this month i gave to algalita for long beach gives. they have a matching donor which is really great! so i w
as especially happy to donate to them this month.

Tuesday, August 23, 2022

august 2022 donation

this month I donated $50 to a gofundme for a coworker's dog who died recently. it did feel weird to give money to a coworker's dog having so recently just given our dog away, but i guess that's how to goes sometimes.

and speaking of how it goes... her dog rather suddenly got really sick, and was throwing up for a full day. after a week and several visits to the vet, they decided to operate. jo had already opened up a few credit cards to charge the $15k for surgery but hercules died in the middle of the operation. hearing her story was really surprisingly, like, jesus... $15k in debt for a dog? i literally couldn't even be bothered to keep my dog around and not because he was sick but mostly because he was annoying and we wanted more freedom of being able to go where and when and for however long we wanted.

anyway, that's really neither here nor there. i hope her other dogs stay healthy. roux too. i hope he stays healthy for as long as steve wants him to.

Thursday, August 11, 2022

july 2022 donation

whoops, totally forgot to donate last month since i was pretty wrapped up in dragon boat. anyway, i made up for it today by donating to Indigenous Women Rising which has a pretty dope logo. i like too that they have a midwifery fund in addition to an abortion fund. tho i donated to their general fund since they know best where that money is needed most.



Wednesday, July 13, 2022

free trees

i never really liked my previous made-up non-profit which was basically RIP Medical Debt because it doesn't actually address the issue. sure, it helps people, but it doesn't fix the bigger problem.

so i came up with a new non-profit! we would partner with local nurseries and buy like a half dozen variety of native trees, load them up in a truck, and drive around neighborhoods knocking on people's doors asking if they want a free tree. we would have a binder with info about the types of trees: how they'll look when they mature, how long that will take, maintenance, etc. so they can make informed decisions. we would also have either volunteers or day laborers (whom we would pay) to plant the tree. and we would leave a brochure behind with how to care for the it,

why?
  • trees look nice
  • trees are good for the environment in a lot of ways (invites wildlife, stabilizes soil, makes oxygen, etc.)
  • trees cool homes and streets which is good for not just that particular homeowner who enjoys the shade, but if you have enough shady trees, it literally cools whole neighborhoods
  • we would plant native trees, or at least nothing terribly invasive
  • can also plant fruit trees!
  • by partnering with local nurseries, we support local economies and communities
  • if we hired day labors, we would also doubly be supporting local economies and communities
  • "easy" for volunteers. as in, very little training and commitment with instant gratification. tho they would need to be in reasonably good shape.
  • convenient for homeowners
  • long lasting, easily duplicatable, numbers driven results (which is good for funders)
yeah, honestly, i only came up with this like last week, but i am SO into this! not quite wanting to actually start this non-profit on my own or anything, but way more jazzed about this than the last one i made up.

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

june 2022 donation

this month i donated to the National Abortion Federation, which is "the professional association of abortion providers." their mission is to "unite, represent, serve, and support abortion providers in delivering patient-centered, evidence-based care."

Monday, May 30, 2022

may 2022 donation

continuing in my pro-abortion donation streak, this month i donated to Just the Pill which provides a bunch of sexual health services, including birth control and plan b. they also help provide access to an actual abortion, including travel costs, etc.

Tuesday, May 17, 2022

words

apparently I started the following post on october 27, 2019 and just never got back to it. I guess I didn't have a good way to wrap it up, so i never finished it. I still don't, really. but imma post it anyway since, well, why not.


many no longer casually toss around the words "gay" and "retarded" as general insults.

i was listening to the radio about awhile ago and they had listeners call in to say "I'm so lame because I..." after a few callers, someone called to comment that they shouldn't use the word "lame" anymore because it could be construed as insulting people with physical disabilities. i mean, i guess. tho i wonder how many people know what lame means in that context. but okay, today's definition of lame doesn't have much to do with the original meaning. it does, but I can see how that would be used as a slight to someone with a disability.

in the same week, I heard a short segment on NPR where the reporter talked about the growing movement in avoiding the word "crazy." I wonder if I agree with this one tho. I do not use that word to describe people with mental illness. I use it to describe frantic situations or people who are illogical sure, I could say "he's illogical!" or "today was super busy!" but I don't know, for some reason I don't think that's quite the same thing?

personally, i don't think it's such a big deal to learn more diverse and more precise vocabulary. especially if my word choice offends people.

Saturday, April 30, 2022

april 2022 donation

this month I gave 25 euro to Women On Waves which is a dutch non-profit that provides abortion pills to people around the world (including those in america). I found out about them thru AidAccess which was talked about in The Atlantic's podcase The Experiment

this is the second month in a row i've given to an abortion org, and from that podcast, I was introduced to a few more great abortion orgs so who knows, this might be my give focus this year.

Wednesday, April 20, 2022

project prevention

one my most favorite podcasts recently replayed an old episode called Inheritance. i was specifically interested in the third section called: What If There Was No Destiny? it centers on barbara, a woman who adopted multiple children from another woman who was giving them up near annually, as soon as they were born. this woman was addicted to drugs and her children would all likely be affected, physically and mentally, because of it. she had three prior children to the four barbara had adopted also. all had given up for adoption. 

after adopting the fourth child, barbara founded a non-profit called Project Prevention, which pays women with drug addictions to get IUDs or get sterilized. 

obviously, this is a pretty controversial org! the money ($300-$400) is given without any drug prevention care. it's just given if the woman gets an IUD or sterilization. it's not given *for* the woman, you see. it's given to prevent more "drug addicted babies."

there are racial implications, of course, especially because barbara is white. altho she does say that the majority of the women who accept are white. (tho what's the breakdown of women they're approaching?)  and you have to wonder if there's any coercion, especially when it comes to sterilization. but it's an interesting idea.

i don't have solid opinions about this org but i will say that i don't intend to donate to them. that may change, but barbara used some rather offensive (and umempathetic) language when describing some of these women and it seems like the org is very strongly driven by her vision alone, rather than by a board, which also makes me uncomfortable.

Monday, March 28, 2022

Tuesday, February 15, 2022

the rachel divide

remember rachel dolezal? she was the white lady who represented herself as being black, was "caught", then lost her job as instructor in africana studies at eastern washington university and position of president of the NAACP spokane chapter. turns out there's a 2018 documentary about her on netflix.

I don't remember much about the controversy. pretty much just what's in the bit above. but the documentary talks about her younger life and how here parents were very religious and strict. they had two biological children and adopted a few more. all the adopted children were black. I'm not going to go into her history because I think the documentary is really worth watching, but in watching the film, her situation made a lot more sense to me.

some interesting things that come up during the film are reactions from black women. namely, that she doesn't get to call herself black, regardless of how she feels, because she doesn't live the struggles that black people have. but is that true? sure, when she was younger, she lived life as a woman person. but in the last number of years, she outwardly presented herself as black, her job had to do with the black experience and history, and her volunteer work as naacp head was also very much done "as a black woman." so how hadn't she been discriminated against in the last number of years as a black person? does it not count because she didn't always struggle?

also, what about black people in black majority places like africa or jamaica? sure they face discrimination, but certainly it's very different than what it's like as a black american. and like, probably less racial discrimination because they're in a place with majority black people and with black people in positions of power. but they also didn't struggle primarily because of their race.

so is it more so your outward appearance and how society perceives you that makes you black? cause i also watched "passing" lately, which was also very interesting and not just because of the casting choices, and would you say that clare is less black than irene because she lives as a white woman, where irene only occasionally does? is irene less black than her husband who couldn't pass at all?

obviously it's not just culture and knowledge of history. because a lot of black (hell most people of all backgrounds) don't know the history of their people but rachel knows africana studies well enough to teach it at a university. [I do wish they had interviewed some students] of course there's a big difference between personally living experiences vs learning about them, but she does seem pretty knowledgeable, at least academically.

a lot of people are mad that she culturally appropriated blackness, and while I guess she did, she also literally tried to walk a mile in their shoes. most people just want the benefits, the cool culture, the tasty dish, the street cred. she literally tried on the whole life.

I don't have an opinion about what she did, but I do wonder if she should have been treated so harshly.

couple reviews of the documentary:

Vulture - The Rachel Divide Is a Rorschach Blot for Its Viewers

Vice - The Rachel Dolezal Documentary Is a Hollow, Manipulative Spectacle

Friday, February 4, 2022

february 2022

this month I gave $50 to rachael's gofundme, which was started by a friend who loves her. i met rachael at BYO when she was hired there as a shop girl. rachael was my favorite of the shopgirls. a hard worker and a dreamer, also fairly practical. last year, or maybe the year before, she moved back home to arizona (I think). she bought an old bus and has been working to renovate it into a tiny home.


i got a bit of raise recently, not sure if i wrote that in my blog. i mean, i deserve it. really i do. so I suppose I'm feeling a bit generous. doubling both my jan and feb donations. but really, giving to friends (tho I don't really consider eddy or rachael friends) feels better than giving to non-profits. like, if you can't be generous to those you know, how can you be generous to those you don't?


Sunday, January 23, 2022

january 2022 donation

this month I gave $50 to eddy, the same person I gave money to back in august. I guess he's trying to move now? I'm not sure, but anyway, he posted on FB asking for help so here you go! it's not much, obviously, but I'm sure it'll help him more than my giving my usual $25 to a non-profit with $1m annual budget. 

Monday, January 17, 2022

give well

while listening to 99% invisible recently (great podcast, btw), i've been hearing adds for givewell.org, a non-profit which rates other non-profits mostly based on the "maximum impact" of your gift. basically, how of your donated dollar actually goes to programming rather than overhead.

I think this is a great idea, but as a person working in non-profit, i have to caution over emphasizing this single metric. i say this over and over, but you should want to pay overhead. overhead includes staff pay, insurance, rent, utilities, office supplies, and all sorts of shit including stuff you would rather not pay for, but ultimately, is necessary. of course, orgs shouldn't waste your money, and a large majority of your donated funds should go to programming, but efficiency of your dollar should not be the greatest metric you're using when judging whether or not to donate.

all that being said, I was happily surprised to see that givewell recommends givedirectly as one of their top charities. they seem to only recommend about 10 or so non-profits a year, so it's pretty dope they recommend an org that i recently discovered and really like as well.

you should look into give well and see if they align with your giving philosophies. their giving priorities are not mine, since most of theirs are medical science stuff done overseas because medical stuff dierectly affects lives (and is an easier metric to calculate) and donating overseas to poorer nations means your dollars go further. still, medical stuff is of less interest to me. but I think they're doing really great work in pooling their donations and giving directly to the orgs they think have maximum impact. they seem very thorough in their research and also very transparent in their reporting.

Wednesday, January 12, 2022

give directly

I occasionally listen to the podcast econtalk. not often tho, because it's pretty academic so I often don't know what theories they're referring to. but I did listen to one recently about givedirectly.org. the podcast interviewed the two guys who started givedirecly, and why they did it, what they've accomplished, and what they're trying to accomplish still. 

givedirectly is really interesting because it's like privately funded UBI in other countries where the impact is greater. giving an american $500 to spend on whatever they want doesn't get them very much: food for the month, school supplies, a car payment, but certainly not rent. give a non-urban area dwelling kenyan $500 and they can send multiple kids to school for a year, or start a whole business, or build a small house.

it's similar to kiva, in that way, sort of. encouraging the idea that smaller amounts money pooled from donors in wealthy countries can create an outsize impact on poorer areas. but better than kiva, is that it's free money, AND they don't have to justify a damn thing. 

as someone who works in non-profit, i love donations. but i LOVE unrestricted donations. even better? large unsolicited unrestricted donations! that's what this is. the givedirectly people go from town to town asking people if they want free money. sometimes people say no (because it sounds too good to be true!). often times they say yes. eventually they get the money deposited to a digital wallet, which they withdraw from, and spend it on whatever they want. the givedirectly people follow up about what they spent on, and such, for research and accountability purposes, but there's not supposed to be judgement. because, well, people know their own needs best.

I think I'll be donating to kiva whatever balance I get back from them, since it's a micro-lending org. and instead give to give directly more often because it better aligns with my values. I never really cared to get the kiva money back anyway.