Monday, January 8, 2018

why are you __?

I Spent A Week Asking Coupled-Up People Why They're In Relationships

as someone who did not except to find myself in a relationship so soon after my last one, i think this is actually an awesome question that needs to be asked more often!

personally, i'm in one, and this one specifically, because we like each other and i'm happy being with him. when i first started dating i was just looking for fun. i wanted to meet new people, do/see/eat new things,etc. when i started seeing j, i figured he would be fun for a while (maybe a couple months) before i lost interest and moved on. as i do. but a handful of dates in i realized i actually liked him and didn't want to waste my time getting to know people i would probably like less. (i didn't ask him to stop seeing others; i didn't care what he was doing.) i was going to give it a few dedicated months and move on. and here we are 10 months later... lol.

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