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"Porn & Relationships: Men's Pornography Use Tied To Lower Self-Esteem In Female Partners"

"Young women who report that their romantic partners look at porn frequently are less happy in their relationships than women partnered with guys who more often abstain, new research finds."

"Discovering explicit material on a partner's computer 'made them feel like they were not good enough, like they could not measure up'..."

well, no fucking shit. i always think that if only i were good enough (sexy enough, hotter body enough, bigger boobs, deeper throat, blond, less inhibited...) rip wouldn't "need" porn. (cause clearly, i'm the problem. not that he just doesn't respect me).


rip tells me that it has nothing to do with me. which just makes it weirder. all my sex life involves him. why does he insist on including other people in his sex life?