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while this is not my story, i understand how she feels. i've always felt that if you were wit someone (ie, had a girlfriend) then you probably shouldn't be looking at porn. 1) it is a sign of respect to her. 'i'm wit you now so i'm not going to look at pictures of other naked women.' 2) this does depend on the girl, of course, but you looking at porn might serve to make her feel bad about herself. as in, you don't find her attractive enough so you have to get your jollies elsewhere. 3) this goes hand in hand wit the last one, but really, why would you need to look at other stuff. why would you want to? should she be good enough? and wat are you telling her exactly when you are looking at porn? wat is she supposed to think? 4) and in an overall thing, porn turns women (and men!) into objects and damnit, we are people and should be viewed as such.
reep and i reached a compromise and for a long time i was okay wit it. until several months ago when a friend told me that basically, i was being too nice about things. i suppose it's too late now. damn, i want to get a lot more personal here, but i really shouldn't, it being the internet and all. =\