dada?

in season two of felicty ruby gets pregnant. she keeps telling noel that he doesn't have to do anything. if he doesn't want in, she won't force him. and yet... she does keep forcing him. when he tells her that he's simply not ready for a kid and needs time to think about how involved he wants to be she gets all angry at him. ... obviously it would be great if he wanted major involvement, but realize that he didn't want this child in the first place. and you made up your mind to keep it. you decided that regardless of wat he wanted. so you don't really have the right to be pissed at him for not being totally supportive of your decision.

in relation to this subject.. a friend of mine said the other day that he wanted a f*ck buddy. he's never had sex before. and i'm like. ...sex is a big deal. not cause of religious reasons or watever. but like... stds and pregnancies are not something you wanna have to deal with. ithe first person you sleep wit doesn't necessarily have to be a soul mate or watever. but you should definitely have some sort of serious feelings about them. and i feel that wit any sex partner, not just the first. if you're female sleeping wit a guy: is this guy someone you can trust about stds and such? if you got pregnant and decided to keep the baby and he wanted to be involved, would you like that? i mean, if he wanted to be involved and that made your skin crawl, i'm thinking that sleeping wit him is a bad idea. or if he didn't want to stick around, how would you feel? or for guys. do you trust her about stds? or wat if you got her pregnant and she wanted to keep it. how would you feel about that? cause i mean. yeah, safe sex is safer but nothing's 100% except abstinence. so i think, for this anyway, it's best to think in worst case scenarios. because potentially, the outcome could be totally life altering.